The ultimate destination awaits. You’ve signed up for Fuckbook, now you’re ready to meet a sexy hookup and expand your good times. While Fuckbook is an easy and simple way to connect with local singles, flings don’t just fall into your lap. You need to do some work, and pay attention to cues and signals.
Here are five things to consider when you use Fuckbook for adult online dating.
Listen to your gut
Don’t allow the world of cyber-dating to deaden your common sense and gut instincts. Your gut instincts got you this far, you should continue to rely on them.
If you get a bad feeling about someone, take a pause and reflect on the entire situation. You might decide it’s not worth pursuing anymore. While Fuckbook strives to create a safe space for our members, bad characters will always find their way into the mix.
Your first line of defense is you.
Furthermore, your gut instincts usually snuff out poor matches, time wastes, ghosters, and so much more. Your common sense should always be listened to.
Listening to your gut will help you find the sexy fling of your dreams in faster order. So it’s worth a listen.
Don’t be shy
I get it, walking up to a girl at a happy hour bar is terrifying. You may not want to admit it to yourself, but most guys do struggle with this exact scenario.
We don’t expect our shyness to carry over to adult online dating, but sadly, it often does. We can’t explain why, but we feel that same anxiety when we see a profile and want to send a message.
The key is to put things in perspective. Fuckbook is an anonymous dating site, there isn’t much risk to sending a note to a profile you find attractive. And if they respond, most of the uncertainty and angst over the situation recedes.
The key is taking the dive and sending that message.
Be open, but cautious, about meeting up
The Fuckbook experience relies on singles (or affair seekers) meeting up in real life.
Fuckbook is not a site where people perform due diligence for months determining if one another is a match. Instead, the original goal is to meet and fuck, it’s that simple.
But don’t be lulled into a bad situation, or mismatch, because you rushed things. Take a little time to get to know the person enough to build a level of comfort between you both.
It’s not a terrible idea to meet up once in person at a coffee shop. This will help you determine if the sexy vibes play out in real life. Often, a failed adult online date isn’t because it was unsafe, rather, the two people didn’t feel attraction when they saw one another in person. That’s the most common obstacle. So get it out of the way in short order.
Get your mind in the dating headspace
You need to be in the moment. The dating moment, that is.
Its important to not go half-assed with adult online dating. But you also don’t want to wear yourself out. I suggest limiting your time to 15 to 30 minutes daily. During that time, make sure you are in the dating headspace. This means maintaining a positive attitude.
You can’t just run to your online dating account every time the girl you are dating screws you over. It’s not a great tool for revenge. When you log on to online dating and hit it hard for hours because your girl screwed you over once again, your head is not in the right space.
Look at Fuckbook even when things are good. Keep it consistent. You’ll reap the spoils if you do.
Don’t seek perfection
If you are looking for perfection on any dating site, you’ll never find anything. Perfection doesn’t exist.
If you find yourself discovering ticky tacky things about every profile you scroll by, you need to take a break and figure out if you want anyone at all. There isn’t some factory constructing single women who fit your exact needs. That’s not reality.
Conclusion
Do a little work each day rather than a ton of work on one day because you’re mad at your ex. Don’t look for a perfect match, look for a good match. Plan to meet up, but don’t rush in an unsafe manner. Always keep a positive, happy attitude and you’ll come off a lot more inviting to others.