Most likely you perceive the point of Fuckbook as getting laid on the first date. That’s fine and well, you should. As an adult dating site, most people’s goal is the expedited hookup. But just like any mainstream dating site, the hooking up for discreet sex on Fuckbook requires some attention to details.
While your odds are higher of getting laid on the first date, they aren’t absolute. We get a number of complaints from new members that they needed a number of dates in order to get laid. So not all is obvious. And just like a mainstream dating site, you’ll need to follow some guidelines and strategies to make your magic happen.
Let’s learn how to get laid on your first date.
In life, success rarely falls in one’s lap. You probably understand this if you’re at least in your mid-20s. Nothing worth having is easy. Fuckbook markets our adult hookup site as a relatively cut and dry singles sex experience. That’s not untrue.
The problem arises when people interpret that to mean, sign up, fill out profile, sit back and wait for all the sex to march like a parade through the comforts and conveniences of your living room.
This isn’t just the antithesis of how Fuckbook works, but it isn’t how anything in life works.
Technology has made a great many things easier. Looking for and apply for jobs is way easier than it was back in the day. But it’s rare that simply uploading your resume to Indeed leads to the job of your dreams. Instead, after the resume is uploaded, you need to do work. You’ll need to search jobs, apply for them, and craft custom, relevant cover letters. The idea is to stand out and impress with relevant, viable skills.
In adult dating, particularly on Fuckbook, it’s important to approach getting laid on the first date in a similar fashion to my Indeed example. Often, people sort of breeze through the Fuckbook sign up process and then wait for sex to land in their laps. When this lackluster process fails to result in discreet sex, they languish in a depressed state.
Fuckbook is an enormous dating site. There are 1,000’s of profiles in your area alone all vying for the same thing you want: A discreet first date sex experience.
There is value in a first date sex accomplishment. It saves time, it opens up opportunities for new sexual escapades, and it increases the enigmatic elements that stimulate the senses. In other words, the less time used in scoring, the more time left for more scoring.
So what hinders getting laid on the first date?
There are a number of behaviors that work against first date Fuckbook sex.
Being incompassionate to personal safety
All dating sites possess a level of risk. You’re talking to a stranger online who could be duping you. No matter how real a profile on any dating site appears, there is always some assumed risk that the person is not what they seem.
Any girl experience in adult dating, or even new to adult dating, shoulders quite a bit of wariness. Few single girls buy into profile authenticity immediately.
Often, men approach women in relaxed fashion, with the expectation that the adult dating label means looser adherence to mainstream protocols. But that’s not the case. Sure, these girls desire random sex, but they still contend with safety issues.
So when a guy pushes hard to meet up while sweeping due diligence under the rug, it sounds the dating alarms in the girl’s head. It’s not about her lack of sexual desire, it’s about her innately protective nature. To state this more clearly, she doesn’t want to meet a serial killer in a cheap motel. You’ve not proven you aren’t a serial killer, mostly due to your rush job that views safety protocols as burdens.
This is why it’s of the utmost importance to embrace safety protocols like talking on the phone, meeting in a public place initially, and telling a friend where you will be going.
If you, the guy, attend to these needs and even further, bring up these safety concepts, it shows you care about everyone’s safety in the hookup.
Otherwise, she might be interested in you, but keep you looping in a state of verification due to your unwillingness to usher the process along.
Focus less on the sex, nudes, at least at first
Fuckbook is a large exchange of nude photos. Girls like to send nudes. We get it. And it’s a part of why we appreciate the Fuckbook experience. But timing is of the essence in these matters.
It may feel counterintuitive to lower the volume on the erotic exchanges initially, but it may serve to increase your chances of closing the deal earlier if you do.
This section relates to our earlier section about safety. But it extends the idea to sexual synergy. A girl needs to understand your not a safety risk and beyond that, she wants to know you are the right meet and fuck for her desires. When you keep sending dick pics and ask her for topless photos, you don’t promote either of the two aforementioned points.
She may keep exchanging nudes with you, but also keep you in limbo with her hesitations in meeting you in person.
For some guys, they just dig the nudes. So it’s all good. But if you are looking to get laid on a first date, you’ll need to take your chat game to a higher plane, at least temporarily.
Be willing to wait for the right time
Rushing the first date may result in a less sexy atmosphere. If a girl tells you that Tuesday isn’t great and you push back on her, she may show up but feel distracted, or have somewhere to be. You want to choose the right day over the fastest day.
You want a day where both of you aren’t limited in schedules that night, nor the next morning.
If the girl you are chatting with is married, this concept becomes much more imperative. You don’t want to force a married girl into an inconvenient time.
Discuss days with your new acquaintance and try to extract potential date killers.
Does she work the next morning?
Does her husband come home after work?
Figure out logistical and scheduling issues. And then work out a date from there. You want her free of constraints and full of sexual energy.
Fuckbook dates destinations should be safe, convenient
If you live 30 miles away, it might be difficult for her to make the drive. That said, some married girls may desire a destination that’s further rather than closer.
Also, make the destination safe. Hotels are decent options because there is a public element. It might be too aggressive to suggest your home immediately.
The moment she becomes uncomfortable is the beginning of the end of your chances at strange discreet sex. It all falls apart.
The best approach is to talk to her and learn what she wants.
Now, this doesn’t mean relying on her to set things up (that’s in my next section). This means inferring what she enjoys and pitching a date idea that works around it.
Don’t rely just on her to make a plan
Girls still like chivalry and strong men no matter what you see on the news. In the past two sections, we’ve discussed on the onus is on you to learn what she likes in a date in terms of location and safety. But this doesn’t mean simply saying, “you tell me, I’ll do whatever.”
That’s a big fat turnoff. You’ll quickly lose your sexual steam with her once you make her do all the work.
The idea is to learn as much as you can about her needs and desires. And then craft a plan around that. If she turns that down, learn more, repitch.
If she says she wants to create the plan, or makes a pitch, by all means, roll with it if you feel good about it. But don’t just assume it’s easier to toss it all on her. You are giving her work. You appear like a weak dude who doesn’t care.
Getting laid on the first date using Fuckbook isn’t just as simple as signing up. You also need to pay attention to the appropriate strategy. So long as you do, you’ll have a fantastic run on one of the greatest hookup destinations in history.