Many Fuckbook members are actually couples, rather than singles. That’s because Fuckbook’s dating platform is built for providing hookups. And swingers sure love finding hookups. Although a lot of couples are looking for three-way, ménage à trois opportunities; many want to explore swinger dating and sex.
When it comes to swinger dating on Fuckbook, you need to understand a few things before you proceed – at least if you are new to swinger dating in general.
Your relationship is dull and downtrodden. Your sex used to look like porno movie climax scenes, now it’s “what’s for dinner” and “I don’t want to watch that Netflix show, pick something else.”
So you’ve traveled down the Internet’s murky backroads hoping to learn more about swinger dating.
But there’s more to know if you want to spice up your relationship with some swinger sex.
Let’s start with the basics:
Um, You Need To Introduce Swinger Dating To Her…
This should be obvious. Of course, it is obvious. But it’s also gut-wrenchingly nerve-wracking.
If you haven’t asked your girl about swinger dating yet, you are going to need to do that before anything goes down.
And not to make you nervous, but understand, you only get one shot at this. If you blow it, she’s never going to want to have the conversation ever again.
But fear not, there are ways to go about this.
Bring up swinger dating in passing a few times first
Yep, bring it up casually a few times. Don’t rush into the “hey, I’m thinking some new hottie sex would be great.
You need a casual introduction into swinger dating before you can get your swinger sex on.
Don’t bring it up in a way that implies you want to do it, but more casual. Talk about how a friend from college and his wife or girlfriend are now into it. Don’t pass judgment over whether it’s good or bad.
The next time you bring it up, act surprised by how well it is working.
You need to normalize it and make it feel less shocking to her so that when you bring up the big talking point, she doesn’t feel knocked over by a lead balloon.
Once that’s done, you are ready to get your swinger dating on. So let’s do this.
Create a Swinger Environment
Do you want to swing at your home, or attend swinger parties that might be peppered with a little voyeurism?
Intense, huh?
With swinger parties, you get the option of variety. Often you place your keys in a bowl and whoever you and your wife get, you swing with that couple. That’s exciting and fun, but also a bit risky. For those parties, you don’t really need to use Fuckbook, you need to find out where the parties are by joining swinger forums.
The other option is to use your home and meet the potential swingers on Fuckbook. In this case, you know who you are getting. It gives you an opportunity to vet the couple to make sure they are compatible and attractive. And of course, safe.
Create Swinger Dating Rules With Your Girl
Without rules and boundaries, swinger dating fails.
It’s that simple.
If you or your girls say “I’m good with anything,” it’s a recipe for disaster. And in a way, it’s an indicator that you both are embarking on swinger dating more because you don’t want each other, not because you want to spice things up. And there’s a big difference.
You need to make some decisions.
For example:
- What sexual acts are you allowed?
- What sexual acts is she allowed?
- Do you both watch one another?
- Can you ever have contact with that person again for any reason other than setting up another swinger date?
It’s really, really important to cover all the bases. But don’t just come up with a list off the cuff, think deeply about what you are cool with. Make sure you and your girl participate in creating the list. For example, are you cool with her giving a blowjob to a guy? Is she cool with you receiving a blowjob from a hot girl?
Do you care if your girl gives a handjob to a guy? What about a guy bending her over the table and pounding her with his big dick? Kissing?
Visualize, visualize, and visualize. Think about how it makes you feel. If it turns you on, you’re possibly good to go.
Start Slow
Your list is big. You visualized all the boundaries. So it’s open season, right?
Not so fast.
It’s imperative that you start off slow. You may think that seeing your girl gets rammed by a huge cock while bent over the table is cool by you, but when it really goes down, you might freak. So maybe start by letting her give a handjob.
Tell the couple that you are new and want to build up your swinger dating feelings. A seasoned swinger couple will understand. In fact, they will be happy to learn that you are a responsible swinger couple that isn’t looking for drama.
Swinger dating can turn into dramas at lightning speed without a slow start.
In fact, it might be a good idea to just hang out with your new swinger couple first. Lots of Fuckbook members end up just hanging out a few times before they really get down to some fun swinger sex. Casual hangouts are a good vetting process.
If the swinger couple has lots of experience, have them share their stories with you. You want to make sure that swinger dating is absolutely for you. You want to make sure it adds spice and connection to your marriage or relationship.
Also, make sure that you search “swingers” in Fuckbook in order to find fresh swinger dating profiles. That’s the best way to begin your journey. Chat with them, have fun, and keep things loose at first. Don’t put a ton of pressure on yourself. That will just add unneeded stress. Swinging is fun, sexy, and can build a stronger relationship if you do it right.