The handjob.
For many of us, it was our first sexual experience.
In many ways, the first date handjob was a right of passage into our now sexual glories.
But likewise, the handjob became a sort of relic, condemned to situations whereas a girl just wanted to take things slow. Even though many guys enjoy the sensuality of a handjob on a date, they almost feel they are shorting themselves better sexual experiences – like blowjobs and fucking.
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Because of this, single guys and girls alike have complicated the role a handjob plays in hookup dating.
I’m here to uncomplicate it with the help of our friends at a Handjob Dating site. Yep, there are sites geared specifically for handjob dating because handjobs are incredibly popular.
De-Stigmatizing the Handjob
If you love handjobs and want your hookups to give you handjobs, you’ll need to peel off the stigma attached to them.
When you meet girls on FuckBooks, they want to fuck because they like fucking. And many don’t want to let you down. In their minds, a handjob is a big whopping let down.
Girls have no idea how many guys love handjobs.
And guys don’t realize how many girls love giving handjobs (yep, no kidding).
I know what you are thinking – why would a girl love to give a handjob on a date?
The answer is simple: Giving a handjob feels dominate, comes with no STD risk, and asserts female power.
When a girl has full control over every part of your dick and balls, make no mistake about it, she’s got the power.
One of the most popular sex articles on line is how to give a good handjob. You hopefully understand that girls are reading this stuff? Let’s hope that you do.
If you want a handjob, you’ll need to make it known you truly value the handjob.
Make it Clear The Handjob Is NOT a Gateway Act
Sometimes girls start giving a handjob and then the guy wants her to suck his dick. But maybe the girl isn’t in the mood for blowjobs. If you consistently treat the handjob as a gateway to a blowjob, you’ll get less handjobs.
This is because the girl will associate the handjob with having to blow you.
Sometimes, your hookup might be tired. But she wants to be polite because she likes you. So she goes for the quick handjob. She saw you looking at her beautiful tits all night. She knows that when you held hands, your dick got hard. So she wants to reward you, but she’s too tired to put your dick in her mouth.
When a girl gives you a handjob, just accept it. This way, you’ll get MORE handjobs.
Send Her FuckBook Messages About Your Handjob Fetish
Again, she may think you see the handjob as a gateway to a blowjob, or something that’s a lackluster basic sex act.
Once she knows you really enjoy a handjob, she’ll be more prone to performing them on you.
She will also be more apt to ask you how you like your handjobs. With lube? A low or high grip?
Ask Her If She Has a Handjob Fetish
As mentioned earlier, many girls have a secret handjob fetish. Maybe your girl has a car date handjob fetish. If you don’t ask, you won’t know.
Ask her if she has a handjob fetish.
If she does, learn more about it. What type of handjob fetishes she has. She may have the fantasy of giving strange guys handjobs. You can always suggest a role play.
The Final Point
Handjobs can be fun for both guys and girls. But communication between two people is the key to handjob exploration. If you enjoy handjob dates, make that known in your FuckBook member bio. This will help people who search on Fuckbookfor handjob guys.
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