On FuckBook, some girls may want to meet and greet prior to meeting and fucking you. This is a normal safety precaution. It doesn’t take a ton of time and hardly holds up the fun. It just ensures that both of you are on the same page, both physically and mentally. It also helps weed out any bad characters.
Some guys get overly nervous prior to a meet and greet, or don’t fully grasp the point.
What is a Meet and Greet
Let’s start with the core component – what is a FuckBook meet and greet? Isn’t FuckBook about meeting and fucking, not meeting and chatting?
In short, the answer is yes, FuckBook is one of the largest fling sites online. The core competency in Fuck Book resides in its ability to expedite sex fast.
But alas, things and life are often a bit more complicated than that. Fuck Book is also about the safety of its members. And moreover, it’s about hookup efficiency.
The meet and greet is a time where two people who will potentially hookup meet in a public place, often a coffee shop, and have a short chat. This accomplishes a number of things.
- It allows you to see that the person you’ve been chatting with is a real person.
- It confirms in-person sexual attraction.
- It confirms seriousness. They showed up, so they are likely to show up for the future hookup.
- It acts as another level of safety.
The meet and greet just helps two people confirm what they already know they want.
But how do we handle a Fuck Book meet and greet opportunity?
FuckBook Meet and Greet Pointers
Never Overshare
Just because you’re meeting in person doesn’t mean all normal online dating protocols are tossed in the trash. Oversharing is not good early in any relationship, but particularly in hookup dating culture. You don’t want to provide a ton of personal information and if they are asking for that, you might want to cut the meet and greet short.
They don’t need to know your middle name, or your Facebook page, or especially where you bank or how much money you make.
You are there to figure out if you two are an appropriate hookup. That’s it. And some of that is chemistry, of course, such as laughing together and feeling a genuine interest in the other person.
Don’t Look Like a Slob
No need to sport a suit and tie, it’s not a job interview. But look good. Smell good or don’t smell at all (the latter is preferred). You just don’t want to look as if you never wash your clothes.
Just show up looking good. Make it appear you cared somewhat about your appearance.
Be Cool
No need to show off or try too hard to impress her. You’re not courting her for marriage and children. You are just there for a cool conversation to confirm you are the right hookup for her. That’s it, don’t overthink things. It’s not a date, it’s just a time to have a quick conversation and make sure you are physically right for one another. It’s also a time to rule out that you aren’t a flake, which by showing up, you accomplish.
Ask Her About Her (But Not Too Much)
Don’t just sit there talking about yourself, ask her about her. Get her to talking and stroke the flames of social energy. The point is, don’t seem overly self-centered as that can be a turn-off.
Offer To Pay
We get this question a lot regarding Fuck Book meet and greets. Who pays?
For the most part, we suggest the guy pay. If you are meeting at a coffee shop, wait until she arrives and then says you’ll put in an order. If she fights it, that’s fine, but at least you offered.